Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Stationery card
Monday, January 2, 2012
Great expectations
I live constantly trying to prove something. I believe I have to be everything to everyone. Any expectation anyone has ever had for me, I have to meet and/or exceed it. Every day of my life, I have assumed I'm disappointing someone or failing to live up to their expectations.
Yesterday was day one of awesome 2012. I was so thrilled I could spend the day in church. I needed His message to fill my mind, body, & soul. The music we sang filled me so much I cried. The message we heard was thought provoking. & then there was Sunday school - we talked about old & new. One of Jesus's parables in Matthew, Mark, & Luke. Basically, you don't patch old cloth with new cloth & you don't put old wine in new wineskin. So why would you try to patch your sinful life with your new Jesus filled life? We discussed in class how this was like Jesus looking at his disciples & saying "duh!"
So how do expectations relate to patching old with new? My thoughts today led me to start thinking about who Im disappointing. Let's be honest here. & when I say honest, I'm not trying to be conceited, but whose expectations have I failed to meet? Whose expectations have I even failed to exceed, other tan my own? I graduated #1 in my high school class. I achieved 4 college degrees (3 of 4 with honors). I'm a registered nurse, a licensed women's health njrse practitioner. Just the other day one of my colleagues stated that she was surprised I had only been a nurse for 3 years, that I just went on steroids & climbed the ladder.
In turning to my new, Godly life, I have to know that I need to trust in Him. I need to TRUST that He is leading me to set every one of His expectations for me. Just as in my job, everyone does not expect me to know all answers, just where to find them. Why, if I can accept that, can I not accept that God has provided me with all the answers? Today, I'm starting my new life. I'm going to God first. He has all the answers. He acceots me & forgives me even when I fail or have a slip. Each day I will strive to be new, not just today, or once a year, but every single day for the rest of my life. He will always be there for me and I will always look to Him.
Saturday, December 31, 2011
Last hours of 2011
For the last month or so I've been saying that I can't wait for 2011 to be over. As I sit amongst Christmas presents I haven't put away during the last few hours of 2011, I'm reminiscing over the last 365 days.
I rang the new year in with my hubby, mom, brother, German family, & my mom's new fiance'. We shot off fireworks, had great food, lots of alcohol, & we were in Germany. When we came back to the states a couple weeks later, we were stranded in Charlotte for a night & then rented a van to make the last leg of our trip. When we got home, James & I discovered some inconvenient messes & inconsiderations left by our dog/house sitter. I had to a reschedule a job interview. None of these tings were major setbacks, just minor inconveniences & had no reflection on what I thought the year had yet to bring.
In the next few months, I returned to school for my final 3 semesters, I interviewed & started a new position at work. Things were going great. That's really the last thing I "remember". The rest of the year was just kind of a blur. I seemed to be on auto pilot from April through about late October. During that time I finished my masters in nursing, preparing for my boards, had a great time with family & friends. I made lots of new friends through my studies.
When I "woke up" I realized I wasn't making the impact I wanted to in my job. However, I was always getting positive feedback regarding my performance from multiple people. It seemed my expectations were the problem. I also realized that the lack of women's health np jobs bothered me more than I thought it would. While there are some days I might want to leave my job minutes into a chat with someone, I wasn't really ready to run out the door as soon as I finished my degree.
The months between my graduation in August & my wake up in October, I literally slept all the time. You can read my previous blogs to get more information on that part of the last few months.
Someone posted this on facebook, " Change the changeable, accept the unchangeable, and remove yourself from the unacceptable." I love this. It seems to be the epitomy of what I was not doing this past year. So it will be my motto for 2012. I still need to work on goals for making 2012 awesome, but I know it will be. & please note that I said goals, not resolutions. I think its important to make this distinction because resolutions o er all seem to be all or nothing. Goals, however, are flowing and plans can change to meet those goaks and even to realize the goal may not be necessary for awesomeness.
I have only come up with a couple goals so far:
1. Go out with a friend at least once a month
2. Meet up with my bff Ashley once a month
3. Make more time for my family by spending at least once a month with them
4. Go to the gym at least twice a week
5. Get a massage monthly
6. Make meals at home at least 3 times a week
More goals to come. 2012, now that I know what made 2011 tough, I'm great!
Monday, December 5, 2011
Accepting nothing less than awesome
Sunday, November 20, 2011
I've got a wonderful feeeeeling....
i don't know why, but today was a great day. i was happy & smiley...genuinely! i told someone it's probably been about it year since i remember feeling like that.
i plan on keeping it up for a while...as long as i can :)
i wish i could put my finger on what did it for today...but i'll take it without any specific explanation...maybe it was just the Love of Jesus shining through!!
but, it was a great day...& no one else could bring me down. no reason to be thought of...just happy!
Friday, November 18, 2011
Me in 2012
Thursday, November 17, 2011
The Portrait of an ENFJ
"people cry, not because they're weak. it's because they've been strong for too long."